GET HIM TO LISTEN TO YOU

Sometimes ur guy's attention isn't focused where you want it to be-on you. So how do you make him swivel his neck back into proper position and keep his attention squarely focused on you?


Ask him for help up front
guys know that you need to vent and that means you need guys to just listen and guys respects that but you can ensure that he will be more focused on your problem if you tell him from the start.

"Honey,I need your help for something".

That gives him a task,a challenge and a responsibility. Even if you already know what to do, then ask him for his input. It will make him feel like you are also focused on him and trust him to see you through whatever bothering you.


Bury the lead
It's an old phrase that journalists use when they wait until the fifth paragraph to tell you the news. You can use the same tactics to keep his attention. One of the reason why guys love sports so much is that they don't know the outcome at the opening kickoff. So start the clock but don't give away the ending.

"A little suspense can hold a guy's attention for a thousand and one nights"


Use the right timing
Not good times to talk about something - calling him at work right when he leaves for work, right when he comes home from work, when he's watching something onTV that he's been looking forward to or anytime the kids are around.
The best time - when life's slowed down a bit, like on a walk or on a car ride or when he's winding down for bed. Of course, guys know deep down that they should listen to you whenever you need them. If you can scoot their way a little bit, guys more likely hear it when you talk. Or shout. Or better still whisper.



Book : Men,Love & Sex Author : David Zinczenko